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22 | Tired of Misunderstandings with Your Teen? 3 Keys to Get Them Talking (Instead of Walking Away)

22 | Tired of Misunderstandings with Your Teen? 3 Keys to Get Them Talking (Instead of Walking Away)

Update: 2025-09-16
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Have you ever said something you meant as helpful, only to have your teen take it the wrong way? You’re thinking, “I just want them to know I care.” But what they hear is, “You don’t think I can do anything.”


In this episode, we’ll look at why your words sometimes don’t land the way you intend—and 3 key shifts that help your teen feel safe to keep talking instead of walking away.


Here’s what you’ll discover:


✔️ The “identity filter” that shapes how your teen hears every word


✔️ How to move from control to collaboration in daily conversations


✔️ Simple reframes that build trust and connection


If you’re tired of eye-rolls, shutdowns, or conversations that go nowhere, this episode will give you fresh hope and practical ways to connect with your teen’s heart.


💛 Scripture Reference: James 3:5 – “The tongue is a small part of the body, yet it carries great power.”


🎶 Song Mentioned: Speak Life by TobyMac - TobyMac - Speak Life


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22 | Tired of Misunderstandings with Your Teen? 3 Keys to Get Them Talking (Instead of Walking Away)

22 | Tired of Misunderstandings with Your Teen? 3 Keys to Get Them Talking (Instead of Walking Away)

Terri Lee | Christian Parenting Coach, Communication Specialist, & B.A. Social Work